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Walter
77 Memphis, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
Marital Status: Separated
Chino
35 Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 31
Marital Status: Separated
Peace be with you in the Name of our LORD JESUS CHRIST! Thank you for spending some time with me. Do you want more? Ok I formerly served in the United States military. My Dad is African American from New York City and my Mom is from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 with red hair and blue eyes. Maybe those genes will show up in my babies one day. NovaCain1537 is where we can keep this conversation going 😉. That is where I receive my 📧messages. I use yahoo 📧so read between the lines😉. Alright let’s do this. So you want a real man of God who will love you and cause your light to shine even brighter on the inside of you? Ok that’s good you are speaking my language. My sister…The Bible says “he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from THE LORD”. I believe this wholeheartedly. My issue is, many women want to be loved and want romance and want to be a wife. They think they are ready and think they know what it really means to be a wife but I am concerned few truly understand from Heavens perspective what is required from a woman in order to cultivate love and a successful union. Marriage is serious spiritual business. Just because you are good looking does not mean that if you are not willing to DO the works that are required of you that it can’t result in disaster. Do you agree? Doesn’t the Bible say “faith WITHOUT WORKS is dead”? Let’s go deeper. The Word of God declares “the two shall become one FLESH”. Do you hear that? Flesh. So if you are seeking to marry and be loved by a man you must first understand what the fallen flesh of man is like and what your job as a wife is while he is on this planet living in a corrupt flesh. Let’s go to the Word of God together shall we? “Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭1‬-‭5‬, ‭32‬-‭35‬ ‭ “For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in EVERYTHING. For husbands, this means LOVE your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up His life for her to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. He did this to present her to Himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. In the same way, husbands ought to LOVE their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. And we are members of his body. As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife MUST SEE TO IT that she respect her husband.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬-‭33‬ ‭ “In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over by observing your pure and reverent lives. Don’t be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God. This is how the holy women of old made themselves beautiful. They put their trust in God and accepted the authority of their husbands. For instance, Sarah obeyed her husband, Abraham, and called him her master. You are her daughters when you do what is right without fear of what your husbands might do. In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.” ‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭7‬ ‭ So here we can clearly see that a couple must REALLY REALLY REALLY be committed to the cause and understand the assignment. I need a woman who is prepared to do ANY and everything necessary behind closed doors to keep me in love before she jumps up and thinks she is qualified for this position in my life. I am not here to play games nor do I want to be in sin! I am telling you in advance so that you don’t waste my time! I truly love God with all of my heart and I want to serve Him all of my days. However I gotta keep it real. I like a loving caring faithful woman all that is good but it is NOT enough for me. I would seriously need a wife who is a real freak at home that will allow me a righteous outlet to express my humanity. She would have to love God first but at the same time also be able to be just as perverted as me Why? So that I don’t have to seek something in the world from other women other than my wife that the Bible said is supposed to be legally mine at home from my wife. I do not want a pretty woman who will ever deprive me of what God says is legally mine. She would cause me to stumble into sin. Even if I don’t physically go out and do the act but think it in my heart I have already sinned. If my wife is always telling me no don’t do that…I don’t like that…you’re disgusting etc…eventually wouldn’t a man be forced to watch pornography to find what his flesh needs. I do not want to watch pornography nor do I want to hate the idea of coming home. This will make me resent her and probably hinder our love. The Bible says “For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. But in the end she is as bitter as poison, as dangerous as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. For she cares nothing about the path to life. She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it. So now, my sons, listen to me. Never stray from what I am about to say: Stay away from her! Don’t go near the door of her house! If you do, you will lose your honor and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved. Strangers will consume your wealth, and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor. In the end you will groan in anguish when disease consumes your body. You will say, “How I hated discipline! If only I had not ignored all the warnings! Oh, why didn’t I listen to my teachers? Why didn’t I pay attention to my instructors? I have come to the brink of utter ruin, and now I must face public disgrace.” Drink water from your own well— share your love only with your wife. Why spill the water of your springs in the streets, having sex with just anyone? You should reserve it for yourselves. Never share it with strangers. Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love. Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman, or fondle the breasts of a promiscuous woman? For the Lord sees clearly what a man does, examining every path he takes. An evil man is held captive by his own sins; they are ropes that catch and hold him. He will die for lack of self-control; he will be lost because of his great foolishness.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭5‬:‭3‬-‭23‬ ‭ Are you picking up what I’m putting down? So before you message me and open this door that once we open cannot be shut please consider if you are woman enough and qualified enough to handle this position with me. I’m telling you up front I’m a lot to handle and will certainly push you out of your comfort zone to see just how deep is your love for me. My sister, once I set my heart upon you I will not stop until I have you right where I know you forever will be mine. So take a step back and do not be hasty for this would not be wisdom. Have you not read where it is written that “A large crowd was following JESUS. He turned around and said to them, And if you do not carry your own cross and follow Me, you cannot be My disciple. “But don’t begin until you count the cost. For who would begin construction of a building without first calculating the cost to see if there is enough money to finish it? Otherwise, you might complete only the foundation before running out of money, and then everyone would laugh at you. They would say, ‘There’s the person who started that building and couldn’t afford to finish it!’ “Or what king would go to war against another king without first sitting down with his counselors to discuss whether his army of 10,000 could defeat the 20,000 soldiers marching against him? And if he can’t, he will send a delegation to discuss terms of peace while the enemy is still far away.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭14‬:‭25‬, ‭27‬-‭32‬ ‭ Our LORD JESUS said “Anyone who listens to My teaching and follows it is WISE✨, like a person who builds a house on solid rock🪨. Though the rain comes in torrents and the floodwaters rise and the winds beat against that house, it won’t collapse because it is built on bedrock. But anyone who hears My teaching and doesn’t obey it is foolish, like a person who builds a house on sand. When the rains and floods come and the winds beat against that house, it will collapse with a mighty crash.”” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭24‬-‭27‬ ‭ “BETTER a dry crust 🥖 eaten IN PEACE than a house filled with feasting—and conflict. ” Proverbs‬ ‭17‬:‭1‬ Alright so let me get specific and get the physical stuff out of the way first so there is no lies or pretending that I’m always an angel. I am a man of God true. Full of faith and the anointing of the HOLY SPIRIT…but in private I am still a man. I think the biggest turn on for me is when woman is serious and looks back at me while gazing deep into my soul and sensuously let out a fart. Im so serious. I think when a woman is willing to do that without laughing it shows so much power in her womanhood and is almost like a mating call. I absolutely love that 💩. I can’t help myself ma’am. I don’t know why but I have to be honest. Why would I put that on here? I want you to know what kind of flesh I have so you can make an informed decision before you contact me. I would be so sad for us to begin something only to realize later that we both do not express our love lust and desire the same way only for it to lead to disappointment and confusion. God is not the author of confusion. I have been down that road before and for many many many years faithfully suffered in silence. I will not allow myself to be deprived of happiness like that ever again. I am not shy and have nothing to hide. I want everything out in THE LIGHT. If I can find a woman who understands me and can allow me the freedom to be myself and also fulfill my calling from THE LORD at the same time…I will see to it that she NEVER has any wants in this life this side of Heaven. I think I should let you know that I believe it is very important for us to take care of our parents and family. This is a commandment from THE LORD not a recommendation. The Bible says if a man will not provide for his family then he is worse than an unbeliever. Also the commandment says HONOR your parents. So my desire is to please God and also please my woman. Does this sound right and good to you? Are you down for the thrill of a lifetime? Do you really think you can handle a guy like me? If you want to embark on a worldwide adventure and take a ride on the wild side of life put that lumpia down and contact me! Lol I am going to shake your world like it never has been shaken before! In America ALL internet addresses end with .com 😉 So I again I receive 📧 through yahoo so go back and look at every 😉 I placed and connect the dots so we can speak further. I told you NovaCain1537 is where we can keep this conversation going. 📧😉
Tom
49 Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Marital Status: Separated
Sean
49 Port Chester, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 43
Marital Status: Separated
Mike
46 Clearfield, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Marital Status: Separated
Robin
52 Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Marital Status: Separated
Evan
55 Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Marital Status: Separated
Atonic
70 Huntersville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 52
Marital Status: Separated
eric
62 Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 54
Marital Status: Separated
Ray
58 Winter Haven, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 37
Marital Status: Separated
Timothy
56 Bowling Green, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Marital Status: Separated
Victor
52 New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Marital Status: Separated
eric
51 Wilmington, Delaware, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
Marital Status: Separated
James
62 Merced, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 48
Marital Status: Separated

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